why my boyfriend some times have sex chat when our sex is perfect

Question

hi, im peymaneh 25 years old my boyfriend is 23 and we are with each other for 1 year we live toghether and send many wonderfull times,  but its 2 weeks that i recognized that he had sex chat with some woman ,when we were friend and  lovers, and the gils are not the kind of sexy  girls their just cant be better than me in outlooking and im good and kind inside too, and our sex is perfect maybe more than perfect  , and he chat with them at work just chating with them without  being satisfing cause his working with his father all the time and cant enevn have an orgasm there... and its so discussing for me   , and  he knows that i knew that and he just want a nother chance and say that it was just for 22 or 3 months!!!  and he dont know why he done that,  i have so many bad feelings  and he just dont have any excuse oe sth to say , just saying he wasnt himself!!1

Answer 1

Don't be so hard on yourself, his behavior is his, don't blame yourself. Men are wired different, it isn't rare at all for a male to have this behavior. I would estimate for every 1 time a female thinks of sex, a male thinks of it 15 times. It is important for you to understand, he may not think of chatting as cheating. The sex drive for every single person is different, your sex life sounds like it healthy, but at his age he is like a wild animal and his sex drive is roaring. It is important that you keep in mind he is not having physical relations with another person, and doesn't understand how this is making you feel. It reminds me of the old saying, "momma doesn't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he is eating dinner at home." I would tell you to be more concerned if he was actually cheating, or chatting with males. Tell him how you feel, but read more about the male sex drive versus female sex drives. Be thankful for what you have.

Answer 2

human nature