My daughter has triplets. 2 girls and 1 boy age 6. Her sister has a boy about 6 months older with older step brothers. At a past family get together the older6 year old boy was found under a table feeling around on one of the twin girls, in her private area. The boy was disciplined by his parents and everyone worked things out. Recently while the older boy's mother, my older daughter, was in the hospital, her sister with the triplets voluntered to keep him for a day or two. Then grandma, who still is working, was going to take over on the weekend. While there, the mother of the triplets caught her sisters boy kissing passionatly upon the other triplet girl. This time my daughter went crazy and asked my wife ()grandma) to come and pick him up before time. She confronted her sister about it while in the hospital and said she didn't ever want to see him again. A few days later she called her older sister and said that she wanted a relationship with her, just not with her son. My older daughter refused the offer and now their mother and I are caught in the middle. Was the triplets mother wrong? We feel like she is & it was a natural thing that we need to watch and make sure the kids are always watched. Not ask a mother to throw her child under the bus.