My friend is acting very very weird with me. She does exactly the opposite of whatever I tell her. She has been my friend for 8 years now and she does the same thing every time. I thought it's just coincidence but it turned out to me that it just can't be.
She called me yesterday so that we can hangout together, I agreed. And we both agreed that we shall meet at 6 PM. I called her to tell her to hurry up because I don't want to stay there alone for long, and she said okay.
I had to go a bit later than I told her for sudden things that turned out, anyway, she usually doesn't take long, like only 20 minutes or something, but this time, she came after 2 hours.
What I'm trying to say here is that whenever I tell her to hurry up a bit, she purposely comes late.
Also, when we met there, we were really hungry so we agreed to order something, we both didn't know the hotline for that restaurant, and since she has mobile internet, I asked her to google it, she said the internet stopped working at her phone, I didn't buy it but I say it's okay and didn't tell her anything. After like 15 minutes, she laughed at an email she just got and read it to me, so I was like "Sounds like you do actually have internet" She was like no it's through wireless connection, I checked my phone and told her there's no wireless connections in here and I laughed. She was like "Do you think I was lying?: I told her "I don't think you're lying, I'm actually sure you're lying" and I laughed as if it was a joke (It wasn't, and she knows it wasn't and yeah, it was pretty rude of me but it's not the first time she does it, and I wanted to sure her that I'm not stupid)
Besides the fact that it's not her first time to lie to me, before, she called me to tell me about the new book she bought and said that I have to read it and that she will bring it to me (Note: I didn't ask for the book, she said I have to read it) But she said don't tell our other friend about it because she didn't want to lend it to her. I said okay. Then I told her to come over now (she was coming, but I wanted her to come earlier than our other friend) so that she could bring me the book, she thought I wanted her to come just for the book but she usually likes coming before our other friend, I told her it's not for that, I just want you to come so that we can discuss stuff that our other friend doesn't know. She said fine I'm coming. I was sure she wasn't gonna bring the book, and I was right. The first thing she said "Oh I forgot the book"
The thing is, I don't get why is she that complicated? You might think they're stupid reasons, but she did do them many times and it started to get on my nerves and I decided to be blunt with her about them. But why I want to know is that is there any psychological reasons she might be doing this for?
Facts about us:
She's a Virgo and I'm a Leo.
I do have many friends and I'm the only friend she actually has and her best friend and there' s no doubts about it. But she could at least act like she wants us to remain friends.
She originally doesn't come from the same social status I come from. Her family was very very poor, and they became rich all of a sudden. I didn't know her when she was poor but I could tell from the way she talks and dresses and I never commented on that.