I am a 19 year old female who has been in a relationship for almost 2 years. My boyfriend was in a car accident several months ago and has since healed. He was not expected to live, but somehow pulled through and after a few months, came back home. His abilities have almost fully returned to his normal state, nothing that would stick, he is fully functional. Before his accident, we would have intercourse a few times a week that would satisfy the both of us, all the time. Always privately, but I never had too many issues expressing my affection for him in public settings. (Kissing, hugging, cuddling) Since he has come home, we have only had sex twice, in a 3 month span. Both times were enjoyable for me, but I was a bit nervous about privacy. I have no issues with him in terms of comfort. I have no problems being nude around him and am still very attracted to him. We are both under circumstances where total privacy is almost impossible to achieve. I feel that if we were to be completely alone, I would have a much easier time with intercourse. However, even kissing and cuddling, which was again normal for us, I have the hardest time doing. It almost gives me panic attacks.
I have no idea if the accident and loss of sexual desire are related, I have no reason to believe they wouldn't be. This was the only major thing to have occured. Any information would be greatly appreciated.
I have no idea if the accident and loss of sexual desire are related, I have no reason to believe they wouldn't be. This was the only major thing to have occured. Any information would be greatly appreciated.