I must warn, this will sound like the most disfunctional issue.My husband had an affair with a woman we both work with. This happened about one year ago. She was an officer in the Army. I reported her. She got a letter of reprimand. My husband was a civilian and there are no rules against what he did, at work. Since, the lady has been spreading rumors about me due to things my husband has told her about me.(ex my fears, weaknesses faults etc) She also has stated I struck her at work. Thankfully my superiors did not believe that, as it did not happen. It seems to never end. I wonder if it is normal for me to still be so angry after the year and why I seem obsessed with the entire event. I think about it every day in one way or another. My friends tell me to get over it, move on. I just do not know how or where to start. Should I go get some help? Has this anger and pain been held on to too long?