This is more difficult that people realize on kids and sometimes takes years to feel you are past it. Step back, take a different look at your life. You have seen and been to many more places than most people. Know that it is all a plan and it makes you who you are today! You are very strong for one thing. Upheaval, though not fun, does strengthen a person. Look at life as an adventure! Do new things maybe you thought you would never do! We spend half our lives trying to settle down and the other half trying to REawaken and have some FUN! Laugh more, let things slide off your back. Do not settle for DRAMA in your life, its a life sucking force! These are all things i wish someone had told me as i had the same kind of childhood.
Now get out and LIVE! Create a legacy! and dont live in the PAST.