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my sister blames me for everything negative in her childhood, how do i get her to stop? - Psychology Questions

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she claims she was molested by our grandfather when we were really young, but I dont remember as i was 5. I can't validate her because our grandpa passed away when I was 10, and I  have no proof. Her proof is a psychologist told her it happened ( as she says). She hates  me because I cant  say "I believe you"  want to believe her, but i have no proof.

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you know what is the meaning of death when some person die, It means i am not any more,excuse me for every thing. And we should accept this. 

First of all you both are feeling guilty ,your sister feel guilty that she was molested,and  you are feeling guilty that how can i blame on my grand father,where as  i dont know.

You know you both sister and brother are wish to justify yourself.  If your grand father is saying excuse me for every thing , you should start first and say to your sister you are right. It doesnot mean that you blaming some one . It means you have a courage to stop a psychological fight beetween you and your sister.