Ok.. I understand that possibility and I also understand that explanation is very important and yes.. I see that truthfulness to them is important... but isn't the psychological responses of the new boyfriend important as well.. in order to determine the effects on the children..??
I mean, what if the new boyfriend didn't like the idea of being more than one person involved with her children, unless it was the real father of course, seeing as to, he will be the future of that part of the family and the Ex is not ?
Or could it still turn out good for the children.. even though she has this attachedment, that is not relevent to what a "normal" famly might be like?
I mean, what if the new boyfriend didn't like the idea of being more than one person involved with her children, unless it was the real father of course, seeing as to, he will be the future of that part of the family and the Ex is not ?
Or could it still turn out good for the children.. even though she has this attachedment, that is not relevent to what a "normal" famly might be like?