I was referred to as "her" when the guy I am dating was saying he didn't "see Her" when he was talking to me about an event where he was telljng me he was looking for me. Also, he lives at home due to a back injury, and I asked if his parents knew where he was and he said no, "it's not that I'm ashamed of her" (referring to me) " I just don't want them to know what I'm doing because my mom will tell everyone"