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A woman I was once involved with called this weekend saying she wanted to see me. We hadn't been speaking for several months because of her current relationship and got in touch about a month ago to make amends. I had asked her out for drinks about that time but she never responded. Then suddenly,I get several text msgs stating that she really wants to see me, she said she was listening to our song and couldn't wait to hug me and that she had so much to tell me. I politely declined. Mainly because I realized her other half was out of town for the holiday and that seemed to be the only reason she wanted to see me. A little background is needed to completely understand. 1) we were involved for a very short time and in that time she lied about an ex who became a current once we broke up. She asked me to live with her and then started an argument the night I agree. The offer was then not an option again. She became involved with her ex and completely blew off our friendship. Over the next few months she would call every now and then & ask to see me. Each time she would be sure to say she left her ex and missed me terribly. By the next day she was back with her ex and again not speaking to me. Finally last October she left the ex and we did in fact resume our friendship. Things started getting a little odd when she would try to kiss me and ask me to sleep over and yes I did give in and accepted her kisses. Then a month later she met someone new . By December she had asked this person to move in but lied to me and said she wasn't interested in the new person. That "new" was getting on her nerves. She had no idea I knew the truth. I called her on it and she denied it until "new" moved from Arizona to California and in with her. She has lied to everyone that knew of us being together including the new person. Everyone believes her to be this fantastic, kind, generous and fun person but she is none of those. I found out I had cancer in December that same year and wanted to talk to her about everything that was happening with me. She was my friend and I needed outside advice and just an ear to listen. Nothing, she never even asked how I was or what was happening. She manipulates situations to fit her needs but I can't imagine she does this with others or they would certainly see her for who she really is. And without the slightest exaggeration I can say without a doubt that people literally adore her. She has something about her that people trust and respect. I have no idea why I am even bothering with this except after this last contact I am really bothered by the entire coarse of events. Can anyone tell me what is wrong with her? Clearly there has to be some kind of condition that causes this type of behavior. Oh and I wasn't supposed to know the "new" person was out of town this weekend. She has lied to her friends and asked me to show up at a bar and act surpried to see her because she will be with friends that know who I am. She has lied about things she has said I have done and said and has made it so that her friends and the current love of her life think I have done some really crazy and hurtful things. She actually sent a text saying she would drive to my parking lot and just see me in her car if that is all the time I could spare. And begged to see me but I have no idea why she would want to see me if she has so much negative to say about me. Why does she continue to want my attention? Why does lie to me and about our "friendship" (not that it exists any longer) to others? And yes sometimes I do miss her, we had a lot of fun together but I can't handle the crazy and cannot forget that she is not a genuine person.




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