There is always this issue can you have good without bad can you hate and love someone at the sametime? Well you can there always things you like and hate about somebody but the thing is do you see them as a friend, more than a friend or as an obstacle. Ultimately if there is love hating particular things won't stop a relationship unless you take it seriously. Can you hate someone but find good qualities? Yes you can but if you the person ultimately as an obstacle you will never be friends. I don't believe in good and evil but I do believe in choice and its consenquences and that's where ethics and morals lie.