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I'M divorced, now in new relationship but i'm always in fear of getting hurt again - Psychology Questions

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After I found out that my husband was still in love with his X-gf within 3rd day of our marriage from the texts they were sharing, I walked out of the marriage, its been 7 months now , divorced. I've found a new person. he's amazing but i always have this fear of this relationship might not work, for i am a doctor and he has studied only till 12 and my family being very particular about the guy has to be well educated and i'm worried in future we might have some issues , more than that i fear of getting hurt again. I've been traumatized after my physically and mentally abusive married life. And i feel like crying over small things going wrong and i always doubt myself of not being a good wife in future, i feel like I am not pretty enough , not worth enough, like i keep messing up in my life. please help me !!!! throughout the day i stay strong and take care of my patients but at night, sadness fills in, tears breaks down and i don't really feel like living. i get insecure and alone. HELP ME

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It seems you tend to generalize. Think that men / women are not the same ! Nothing can be generalized about people and human behaviors, since all people are different and so, have their own reasons to do and / or say something. I mean from their own personality.

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