why does my mother treat me so bad and act like she doesnt

Question

My mother is extremely disrespectfull toward me. My entire family refuses to speak with her and she expects me to fight all of her fights. I have cared for her through breast cancer, supported her through alcaholism been physically and mentally abused by her my whole life and after years of family therapy she still treats me like crap. I can never do enough for her and sho comstantly tells me that my deceased sister would never treat her the way i do. I have a much more successfull life than i ever imagined yet its never good enough for her. How do i get her to just stop and or go away. She follows me everywhere even to work amd shows up at my faughters school trying to take her out without permission. I need help

Answer 1

     i assume your motheris at least 35-65 years old. Erik Erikson is a developmental psychologist and psychoanaylst who is known for his theory on psychosocial development of human beings. I am convinced she is in the stage of Generativity Vs. Stagnation. When we are in this stage we often fear inactivity and meaninglessness. I hope this helped you out  thank you.